{"id":1777,"date":"2014-02-18T00:51:18","date_gmt":"2014-02-18T00:51:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/web02.carmelss.edu.hk\/buddingwriters2\/archives\/1777"},"modified":"2015-05-24T07:10:34","modified_gmt":"2015-05-24T07:10:34","slug":"giving-advice-to-a-teenager3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carmelss.edu.hk\/buddingwriters\/archives\/1777","title":{"rendered":"Giving advice to a teenager"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Joseph,<\/span><\/p>\n

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Yesterday, I learnt that you had a very hard time in your new school<\/span>.<\/span> I really sympathi<\/span>z<\/span>ed with you and felt sorry for you<\/span>. I really hope that the advice I\u2019m giving you in the following can offer some help. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Frist, don\u2019t lose heart whenever you\u2019re teased. Everybody runs into difficulties wh<\/span>ile<\/span> ad<\/span>a<\/span>pting to a new environment. You\u2019re not an exception. Always remember you\u2019re unique and stay positive and try, learning to i<\/span>gnore<\/span> the negativity. Don\u2019t be too conscious about <\/span>being <\/span>teas<\/span>ed by<\/span> others <\/span>and<\/span> your normal school life can be maintained.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Second, showcase your confidence to your classmates. You\u2019ve got <\/span>to <\/span>be more engaged in class and activities, so that no one ignore<\/span>s<\/span> your existence in class. If you recoil or flinch before<\/span> you classmates<\/span>, they\u2019d definitely consider you a <\/span>coward<\/span>or an <\/span>underdog and make fun of you more recklessly. Therefore, you\u2019ve got to actively answer teachers\u2019 questions and take part in school <\/span>activities and organizations<\/span> to show them <\/span>your talents and strengths<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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After taking the two actions, you\u2019ll be more likely to make friends in class or through the school team you<\/span>\u2019ve<\/span> join<\/span>ed<\/span>. If the situation continues or aggregate<\/span>s<\/span>, you may seek help from your teachers. Talk to teachers about the problem and difficulties you meet. Actually, the most direct way is to confront the group of student<\/span>s<\/span> who tease you. You\u2019ve got to know whether being overweight is solely the simple reason why they tease you. If you realize that you have some unpleasant or undesirable character, you might try to overcome it. If being overweight is the only reason <\/span>why <\/span>they laugh at you, the<\/span>n<\/span> neglect it because it\u2019s not your fault. Outside appearance never take<\/span>s<\/span> priority over inner beauty and you would better leave the group of students because true friends never pay heed to one\u2019s appearance. Just look for other friends if that\u2019s the case.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Finally, don\u2019t lose temper at school or provoke the group of students who tease you. You would fall into their trap if you ever did it. Because what they want is to take pleasure in watching you suffer from teasing. So refrain from getting emotional and steer clear of any ideas of challenging them, which will engend<\/span>er<\/span> a disastrous aftermath. Always bear this in mind <\/span>if<\/span> you don\u2019t want to exacerbate the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Hope my advice will work for you. If not, seek help from your parents and teachers and consider moving to another school, which might be your best bet.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Joseph<\/span><\/p>

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Yesterday, I learnt that you had a very hard time in your new schoo<\/span>.<\/span>I really sympath<\/span><\/span>ed with you and felt sorry for yo<\/span>. I really hope that the advice I\u2019m giving you in the following can offer some help.<\/span><\/p>

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